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George Costanza’s school "Get a girlfriend"

Do you remember Seinfeld?

Yes, the television show.

(By the way, even decades after it was canceled … people still love it!)

Anyway …

A couple of days ago, I read a newsletter from one of my business mentors. He talked about a lesson he learned from that show. More specifically, the episode in which George Costanza did everything backwards. And while the lesson was about marketing, it can also be applied to dating. Especially if you are looking for a high-quality, beautiful bride rather than a drab drunk.

So …

There is a scene where George Costanza gets a job interview with the New York Yankees. Now, instead of kissing the owner’s ass, he told him the Yankees sucked. He also made sure to tell her WHY he thought all the landlord’s decisions were big mistakes.

They hired him on the spot!

Then there was this other scene, where he saw this hot and sexy babe having dinner alone. Then, he approached her. And instead of trying to be someone he’s not and trick her into going on a date, he told her he was bald, short, didn’t have a job, and still lived with his parents. She instantly went on a date with him!

The crazy thing is …

The same goes for introvert dating. You see, dating is hard for introverts! Because most dating advice tries to turn introverts into extroverts and push them to present themselves as someone they are not! And if that’s not enough, most dating techniques are about cheating, lying, and manipulating women into relationships. Needless to say, none of these will help you get a quality girlfriend.

And certainly not in the long term!

I mean, what do you think happens once you find out that the guy is NOT who he “pretended” to be? That’s right! She leaves it!

This is my point:

Let the other team go down that path.

Let PUAs take low-quality women and be abandoned after their “facade” falls apart.

We will take the “opposite” approach.

Because doing the opposite of what other guys do can give you a huge advantage with girls, especially with high-quality ones.

Try it.

You will really be amazed at the results.

At this point, you are probably wondering, “what specific opposite things can I do?” Well … here is something practical that you can apply in your next interaction with a woman. The next time you disagree with a woman, instead of changing your opinion to match hers and going into “me too” mode like most men do, just do the opposite!

I don’t agree with her!

You will see that by doing so, you really create attraction! Because attraction is created when we break the relationship, not when we build it. And that is the problem. All our lives, we have been taught to build a good relationship with people. Our parents told us to be nice. At school, they told us to be nice. At work, they ask us to be nice.

Seriously …

Think about any communication courses you have taken at work. It’s about building a good relationship and making friends with people. But if all you do with a woman is make friends with her … don’t act surprised when you land in the friend zone. So the next time your date tells you that she likes Harry Potter, don’t be afraid to tell her it’s silly!

Of course, don’t be rude!

As long as you do it in a playful way, with a cheeky smile on your face, you will notice that she will be more attracted to you.

Hope you enjoyed this article because that’s all I have for you today!

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