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How can you mend your broken heart? Even if you are still in love with your ex!

How can you mend your broken heart if you are still in love with your ex? Situations like this will probably be one of the most painful experiences you’ve ever been through, it’s hard to move on, if at all. Are you still looking for closure or looking for ways to reconnect with your ex?

Since breakups end for a variety of reasons, there really isn’t just one answer. But most breakups are one-sided affairs where your girl came out of nowhere and surprised you with “I just need a little space.” It’s hard to take, especially when you don’t see the glow your girl once had for you.

Breakups usually happen in your ex’s mind long before the actual breakup, usually months and sometimes years before. It’s a buildup that most on the wrong end of a split didn’t see coming. Your girl didn’t know your relationship was deteriorating until she met someone new. Did you give your girl enough attention? Because if you didn’t, this other guy is filling the void. But this is often false attraction and the reason most rebound relationships fail.

So what are you supposed to do?

If you want to get back with your ex, you must first mend your heart. Take some time off of her. She tries to move on with your life. This will be difficult because there will be days when you feel like you can’t move. Take a class and learn a new hobby, preferably something physical. Like a martial art or training for a marathon. This is a good time to aim for some personal goals. Transform that negative energy, (Yes, it’s still energy) into positive energy.

This is the fast track to healing yourself. Your girl will see a new and better you.

Forget about the past and focus on reconnecting with your girl in the future. It is important that you do not blame yourself or your ex girlfriend. You want her to be happy, but more importantly, you want you to be happy.

Think of your space apart like a rubber band. Be a strong anchor and give your girl some space, no matter if the ties break. If there’s a part of you in her, and I’m sure there is, there’s hope she’ll come back to you.

It is important that you express to your ex how you feel about her, but there is a right way to do it and a wrong way. Most men do it the wrong way, pushing her further. Most of his expression is indirect, focusing on improving himself and his ability to be super strong at times like this.

Your girl will soon notice that you are more than fine and this will pique her interest. Most likely, she will try to contact you again, but this is a trap. If you say or do the wrong thing, you will drive her away again.

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