How to Text a Girl You Just Met: 3 Ways to Make Her Hot for You on iPhone
Texting that cute girl you just met can seem like an intimidating process. The good news is that it’s not impossible to rekindle that spark between you. But the hard part is: actually pulling out your phone and texting him!
While it can be challenging to seduce women over text, it doesn’t have to be. In many ways, it may actually be easier. You have words in your favor, as well as the leisure to find out what you will say next.
Texting can be a powerful way to capture her interest and make her feel attracted to you. Here are 3 steps on how to seduce her through text.
1) Start by getting their attention
Women are often inundated with men sending them texts, emails, and phone calls trying to get into bed with her. Imagine her coming in after he’s been out of her all night, taking off her dress and getting into bed. What is the first thing she sees? Her cell phone, exploding with all the messages from the guys she just met. This means that you have competition.
So you have to do something to get their attention. Something that will make you stand out from all the other men texting her.
Start by playing it safe. Depending on how close you got to her during the face-to-face interaction, before she gave you her number, you need to talk to her about something during that conversation.
Try not to think too much about it; just leave it open with a simple “Hey, what are you doing, young lady?” and you can add a smiley emoticon if you want. Then wait for her response. If she’s busy, she’ll let you know or text you when she gets the chance. You can also try a message that shows that you really paid attention and listened to her.
Such as: “Hi Jane, how was your shopping trip? Did you find anything you liked?”
After she replies, send her a flirty and playful message, something like “Oh, nice dress. You can wear it when we go out for drinks.” The point is to show that you are paying attention, keeping the conversation flirty and fun.
2) Short and sweet
You need to make sure that your messages are short and to the point. Don’t send him messages that are too silly or needy. That will turn it off. Only simple, striking, brief and interesting texts.
Be sure to accommodate the style of your writing. If she gives you two or three word responses, you should respond in kind, not send her four screens of text in your response.
3) Make her laugh
If you don’t do anything else, try to get a few laughs out of him. You would be surprised how important a sense of humor is for women to be attracted to a guy. If he thinks you’re funny, he’ll be much more attracted to her.
Some fun texts to send:
1) “I just got back from the bookstore. You won’t believe what I just saw. It made me think of you…”
2) “I am about 5% more awesome today than I was yesterday. What is your daily level of awesome?”
3) “I just flew in a private UFO and saw your twin sister, or was she a clone? Do you know anything about this?”
Try to be creative and also think about your own texts.