What a man needs to commit to you forever
Unlike women, most men don’t sit around thinking about the future or “forever.”
That’s why it’s important to know what inspires a man’s love, affection and devotion, and what triggers his need to commit to a woman for the rest of his life.
Here are three things a man needs to really commit to you forever:
1. He needs to know that you don’t NEED him.
We all know that when it comes to men, need is the opposite of attraction. Most women throw themselves at a man trying to convince him that they are a great catch, or come across as distant, cold, or unapproachable.
Men are irresistibly drawn to a woman who knows who she is, knows what she wants, and has no anxiety about whether or not a man loves her, because she already loves herself!
2. He needs to feel a sense of “quiet contentment” when he’s with you.
When it comes to love, many women want passion and excitement, while men want to feel a sense of CALM. To truly attract a man so that he never settles for anyone else, you must create an overwhelming feeling of “quiet contentment” when he is around you.
This is the opposite of what so many women do by making a man “wrong,” starting conversations about the direction of the relationship, or giving him an ultimatum.
3. He needs to feel like it’s HIS idea to pursue you and commit to you.
Ultimatums almost always drive men away. A man will only truly commit if he feels he made his OWN decision to commit, and if he feels he has to EARN YOU. Men highly value what they have to work for, just like we do!
This is not about playing “hard to get” (that will backfire on you). But once a man makes his own decision to REALLY be with a woman, he will fight for that love and relationship more than anything else in his life.
If you learn to trigger a man’s need to engage his mind, suddenly this whole game of love, dating and relationships is forever changed. Suddenly, the guy who doesn’t want to commit finds himself happily asking YOU for a commitment. You will find yourself being pursued and wanted by REAL men who are ready and willing to give you the amazing love you want and deserve!