What do you say when you toast with vodka?
Drinking vodka, like many other social rituals of people coming together to celebrate, brings with it a background of a long and rich history and numerous traditions that have come down to us through the generations. The accepted rituals of toasting with vodka have their roots in Russian culture, history and traditions, although it has taken on a more international character in this global age. Vodka is still a large part of Russia’s social fabric and interpersonal interactions, and is replete with numerous conventions.
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Generally, both in Russia and in the West, drinking vodka is a group activity. Groups of people indulge in vodka when they get together to party, socialize, or hang out; when they celebrate a life event such as a birth, death or wedding. Heavy drinking over numerous rounds is common at most of these gatherings. You might see people drinking vodka, neat, as shots, at traditional Russian gatherings, while most people mix it with something like tonic water or fresh juices.
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In the Western world, we suffer from the misconception that the proper toast when drinking vodka is na zdorovie. This is not really a proper toast in Russian. It doesn’t actually mean “for your health,” as you may have often heard. Instead, try something like za milyh dam, which means for lovely ladies, or vashe zdorovie, which means for your health.
Vodka toast for occasions
The nature of the occasion calls for a particular type of toast, regardless of whether the drink is vodka or a bottle of champagne. Weddings, for example, call for toasts to love, happy endings, and many years of wedded bliss for the new couple. Instead, when toasting a new baby, it is more appropriate to toast her health and long life, and the happiness she will bring to her parents’ lives. When toasting a new company, a new home, or some other live event, similarly, the occasion will give you a clue about possible and appropriate toasts. For example, at a wake the deceased should be toasted as the first toast, but glasses should not be clinked. On birthdays, toast the birthday boy or girl first and then their parents. The wedding toasts would be for the couple, then for their parents, moving on to other topics such as love, happy life, etc.
A sequence of vodka toasts
Over the course of an evening, hardcore vodka drinkers may progress through a series of toasts. If you’re in Russia, drinking vodka with a room full of Russians, the evening can progress through a few common steps. The first toast, made by you or another guest, would be to propose a drink to the host of your party. Usually this will be the first in a series of toasts, from noble ancestors, to guest/host children, company women, and abstract concepts like honor, pride, homeland, etc.
Tips and Warnings
Always keep basic etiquette and polite manners in mind, as well as the occasion.
It is better to appear uninformed than to appear rude or risk insulting the host or other guests.
When in doubt about what to say, it is better to say nothing, or wait and watch and take cues from what others say and how it is received.