Male Chastity – How To Get Your Wife To Lock You Up

Male chastity and orgasm denial are a very common fantasy for men, but there’s a problem: you can’t really do it on your own.

well you canBut that’s not what gets men going. Because, the thrill of it is that the man feels that he has no choice in the matter and it is his wife or girlfriend doing it “to” him instead of “with” him.

This need to feel out of control is central to the hundreds of silly stories on blogs and forums of men claiming everything from the mysterious existence of the “inescapable chastity belt” (totally false) to wives and girlfriends using “blackmail.” “in the form of photographs and divorce (too dumb for words).

So he simple The answer is to make your wife hold your key and not let you orgasm, right?

Good.

But the problem with that It may be simple, but it’s not always easy.

Discussing candid sex can be difficult at the best of times for couples, and confessing to something quite out of the ordinary like male chastity and orgasm denial is even more difficult.

And as a result, many men spend decades (literally) with this burning desire of theirs and never, ever get to ask for what they want. Which is a terrible shame, because if you frame it the right way, male chastity can be very attractive to a woman.

So here are three tips to help you ask for what you want, without all the embarrassment and heartache:

1. Don’t make it all about great sex. From your point of view, you probably think that promising him hot, unrestrained sex will be a sure hit. And while you can be sure that her wife will enjoy this aspect of male chastity, it is NOT a huge selling point for her right off the bat. Instead, focus on the greater emotional intimacy and connection that she will enjoy with you. That is much more tempting for most women.
2. Do not tell him that you will bow to his every whim. Not only is he almost certainly not wanting this (he wants a man not a doormat), but they just won’t believe you. You’ve probably made similar promises before, about how you’ll be “more useful around the house”… and you’ve never kept them before, so why would you keep them now? Rather, tell her that her denied orgasms mean she’ll naturally be more attentive, similar to how she was when you first got together. She will be able to relate to this as a common, shared experience that you have already had with her. Women are (mostly) looking for better relationsand not just better sex (the latter comes to them through the former).
3. Show him, don’t just tell him. Talk is cheap and easy. Therefore, it is generally much more effective to “walk the walk” rather than just “talk for the sake of talking.” The next time you make love, focus on her and unilaterally give up your own pleasure. Don’t make a big deal out of it, and don’t unnecessarily call attention to the fact that you are more caring and caring (but DO NOT bother her for sex!). If you then raise the issue, the next Whenever you make love after this (eg, “Last time I didn’t orgasm and I felt so much closer and more attentive to you”), she’ll get the message. This opens the doors for honest and open communication between you.

By following these three easy steps, you are much more likely to get what you want without having to drop hints (which she simply never understands) or blurting out what, to her, is a very confusing and sometimes confusing message. scary.

Whatever you do, don’t make the mistake of reading ridiculous internet blog accounts about how each wife secretly walks around wanting to deny her man’s orgasms.

Instead, it will pay you to listen to someone with 13+ years as a key holder, so…